We know that when a person experiences an overwhelming event the brain does not process properly. The memory can become fragmented and distorted. This is a function of your mind attempting to protect you from mental anguish, however, a negative consequence is the traumatic memory can be triggered without notice and cause ongoing emotional distress and disruptions in your life. Eating disorder behaviors often begin as a way to avoid or numb oneself to unwanted thoughts and feelings associated with past trauma and painful memories. After a time, disordered eating behaviors can become a ritual that is hard to change, and before you know it the eating disorder becomes a default way of being and you find yourself stuck.
What to expect
EMDR utilizes the natural process of the body through eye movement. Just like the eye movements that occur during REM sleep, EMDR uses bilateral motion to stimulate both hemispheres of the brain to create new neural connections. Your therapist may use hand movements or a light bar device and instruct you to visually follow the movements to create the necessary bilateral stimulation. This would be the same process if you were in-office or in virtual therapy. EMDR does not bring up all the details of the trauma but rather, you and your therapist will set up a guided learning state that allows these experiences to be stored appropriately in your brain
An advantage of using EMDR virtually is that feeling secure in your space is vital to beginning the process. Many clients feel most safe and secure in their own homes. If you are feeling stuck with disordered eating, virtual EMDR therapy may be right for you.
Kindful Body has several therapists trained to provide EMDR in Orange County, CA for your unique needs.